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Women: what to wear to court

Why have I written three blog posts this month about what to wear to court?  Does the court (or anyone for that matter) even notice what you are wearing to court?  The answer is yes!  It has even been noted in written judgments of the court:

On two dates when LD was being cross-examined, she attended Court in rather large, bright pink fuzzy bedroom slippers which was out of sync with her usual manner of attire, and certainly out of the norm for any reasonable person’s court attire.

Women should wear something to court that they feel comfortable in.  Something that fits well and can be described as “business casual” attire (something you would wear to an interview for an office job).

A good look for women (from top to bottom) is:

Wear a cardigan or blazer over any sleeveless top

  • A neutral coloured blouse, or dress shirt that is ironed, clean and properly fitted.  The shirt should not show too much cleavage (also consider that court may be stressful so wear a shirt that doesn’t show sweat);
  • A matching sweater, cardigan, or blazer;
  • An ironed skirt (no shorter than one or two inches above the top of your kneecap) or ironed dress pants;
  • My favorite thing to wear is a “suit dress” – they are very comfortable and you don’t have to iron a blouse (see above);
  • Tights (or nylons) if you are wearing a skirt or socks that match your shoes and pants; and
  • Conservative shoes (closed toe) that are easy for you to walk in.
Also consider, accessories:
  • A satchel, computer bag or briefcase to carry any documents (do not shove them all into your purse);

    Do not wear anything that indicates you disrespect the court

  • Jewelry (keep it simple, tasteful and modest);
  • Nylons (bring an extra pair in your purse).
Also consider, grooming:
  • Keep your makeup natural;
  • Do not apply makeup in the courtroom;
  • Keep your nails clean and neat;
  • Cover Tattoos;
  • Remove piercings (with the exception of an earring in each ear);
  • Keep your hair out of your face and neat looking.
When you are getting ready, focus on the idea: conservative, professional and trustworthy.   Outfits that invoke thoughts of summer, Lady Gaga, and fashion forward should certainly be worn with caution, and not without a second opinion.
It is important to note that different judges have different ideas about what is appropriate for court.  When I was in law school, a girl went to court in a suit with dress capri pants, and was told by a judge that they were not appropriate.
On the other hand, when  someone I know was working , she found out from a reliable source that not all judges felt it necessary to wear nylons in the summer (and we were all pleasantly surprised!).  In any event, I always err on the side of caution and wear nylons (subject to any last minute runs etc…see above).
  • Kbauer

    What about when Michael Jackson wore his pajamas to court!? This is obviously also no no.